Leadership is no longer defined solely by strategy, charisma, or innovation. It is increasingly measured by a deeper capacity: the ability to foster environments where people can show up fully — seen, heard, and valued.

Across industries, Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, and Belonging (DEIB) are emerging not just as values, but as essential leadership practices. These concepts represent a shift away from transactional models of authority and toward relational, culturally intelligent leadership.

“Diversity is being invited to the party; inclusion is being asked to dance.”
— Vernā Myers

In this article, we explore the science, implications, and practice of DEIB in leadership coaching, drawing from psychological research, organizational studies, and lived coaching experience.

 
Understanding the Four Dimensions

Diversity refers to the presence of difference in a group or organization. These differences may include race, gender, age, nationality, sexual orientation, neurodiversity, religious affiliation, socioeconomic status, and more. The value of diversity lies not in variety alone, but in the interplay of perspectives, which research consistently links to better decision-making and creativity (Cox, 1993).

“It is not our differences that divide us. It is our inability to recognize, accept, and celebrate those differences.”
— Audre Lorde

True diversity begins when leaders become curious about perspectives unlike their own — and remain open to the discomfort it can bring.

Equity is often misunderstood as equality, but they are not the same. While equality gives everyone the same resources, equity acknowledges that different people have different needs. In organizations, equity demands a deep awareness of structural barriers and an active redistribution of access, opportunity, and support (Sensoy & DiAngelo, 2017).

“Fairness does not mean everyone gets the same. Fairness means everyone gets what they need.”
— Rick Riordan

This mindset requires leaders to adopt a systemic lens — to look not just at individuals, but at the systems that shape outcomes.

Inclusion is the practice of ensuring that every person in the room feels welcome to participate. This means more than representation — it means engaging people meaningfully in dialogue, decision-making, and leadership itself.

“Inclusion is not a matter of political correctness. It is the key to growth.”
— Jesse Jackson

In coaching sessions, inclusion shows up in the questions leaders ask: Who hasn’t spoken yet? Whose input is missing from this decision?

Belonging is the emotional outcome of sustained inclusion. It is the experience of being accepted for one’s whole self — not just the parts that conform. Deloitte (2019) found that people who feel they belong are over six times more likely to be engaged at work.

“Belonging is the innate human desire to be part of something larger than us.”
— Brené Brown

Belonging is what turns a workplace into a community. It is the deepest expression of psychological safety.

 
Why DEIB Matters in Leadership

The research is clear: organizations that lead with DEIB principles perform better, retain more talent, and build stronger cultures.

A McKinsey & Company report (2020) showed that companies with more diverse executive teams were more likely to achieve above-average profitability. But beyond data, DEIB builds the kind of trust, engagement, and loyalty that numbers alone can’t generate.

“People don’t leave companies. They leave cultures.”
— Arcadia Coaching Lab

In coaching conversations, I’ve seen leaders shift their mindset from “How do I include more people?” to “What in our system is preventing people from participating fully?” That’s when real transformation begins!

 
Psychological Safety and Innovation

Amy Edmondson’s work on psychological safety (1999) shows that inclusive environments fuel learning, innovation, and accountability. When people feel safe to take interpersonal risks — asking questions, challenging norms, admitting mistakes — the entire organization becomes more adaptive.

DEIB directly supports this by ensuring that people are not punished for difference, but recognized for it. When inclusion and equity are practiced consistently, people are more willing to speak up and contribute their best thinking.

“When people feel psychologically safe, they bring their whole minds to work.”
— Amy Edmondson
 
Common Barriers to DEIB

Despite its importance, DEIB implementation is often hindered by unconscious bias, fear of conflict, and a lack of systemic awareness.

1. Performative Inclusion: Surface-level gestures that lack follow-through, such as diversity statements with no change in behavior or policy.
2. Blind Spots in Leadership: Unexamined assumptions about "merit," "fit," or "professionalism" often exclude voices that don't mirror the dominant culture.
3. Absence of Metrics: Without data and accountability, DEIB efforts remain anecdotal and subjective.

“We can’t fix what we don’t see. We won’t see what we don’t measure.”
— Dorianne St Fleur

Effective DEIB work requires both personal humility and organizational structure.

In my own coaching practice, DEIB often enters quietly, through the side door. A team is struggling with communication, but beneath the surface is a deeper tension: the same people always speak, and others consistently defer.

We pause and ask: Who feels they belong here? Who’s adapting constantly just to stay in the room?

“Coaching is not about solving problems. It’s about expanding what’s possible.”
— Michael Bungay Stanier

One executive client began asking each team member not just “What do you need from me?” but “What does leadership look like to you?” The answers surprised him — and changed how he led.

 To integrate DEIB meaningfully into leadership practice:

1. Listen before leading: Host listening sessions or 1:1 conversations to understand how people experience your culture.
2. Use equity audits: Evaluate compensation, promotion patterns, and access to mentorship by demographic breakdowns.
3. Personalize inclusion: Ask what inclusion looks like for each team member; it differs widely.
4. Model discomfort: Normalize learning aloud. DEIB work often requires unlearning, which can feel vulnerable.

“Real inclusion requires real humility.”
— Stefanie Krievins
 
Conclusion

DEIB is not a separate project from leadership — it is leadership. It challenges us to move from unconscious default to intentional design. From dominance to partnership. From fitting in to truly belonging.

Organizations that embrace DEIB are not just more ethical. They are more human, more resilient, and better prepared for the complexities of modern work.

As coaches, our task is to support this shift — one conversation at a time.

 
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Ahmed, S. (2012). On Being Included: Racism and Diversity in Institutional Life. Duke University Press.
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Leadership has always demanded a delicate balance between data-driven rationality and human-centered intuition.

In the 2020s, AI systems offer unprecedented access to information and pattern recognition. However, they lack critical human faculties: contextual judgment, emotional intelligence, and ethical discernment.

Instead of positioning AI as an opponent or a tool to be dominated, the Centaur Model (Kasparov, 2010) proposes a symbiotic partnership between human intuition and machine analysis. Leaders who embrace this model are not replaced by machines; they become more potent through collaboration.

 
Defining the Centaur Model

Coined in the field of chess by Grandmaster Garry Kasparov after his 1997 match against IBM’s Deep Blue, the term "Centaur" describes a hybrid entity: part human, part machine. In Centaur chess tournaments, teams composed of humans working alongside AI consistently outperformed both pure human players and AI-only systems (Kasparov, 2010).

In leadership, the Centaur Model applies the same logic:

AI processes vast datasets, identifies hidden patterns, and offers predictive insights.
Humans apply ethical judgment, intuition, emotional understanding, and strategic creativity.
Thus, leadership becomes an act of orchestration rather than domination.

Leading as a Centaur: Why Wisdom Needs Algorithms (and Vice Versa)

In my coaching work with senior managers and emerging leaders, I have observed a recurring pattern:

Many executives initially approach AI systems either with mistrust ("It will make mistakes") or passivity ("It will make decisions for me").
Neither attitude fosters effective leadership.

A client, head of a mid-sized logistics firm, faced the challenge of optimizing delivery routes under volatile fuel prices.
Instead of relying solely on instinct or handing the decision entirely to predictive algorithms, we coached a Centaur process:

The AI produced a dynamic range of cost-efficient route options based on live data.
The human considered brand values, employee wellbeing, and regional client relationships — choosing a solution that optimized both numbers and relational capital.

Another client, an HR director, used AI to identify patterns in employee performance data.
However, instead of treating the data as absolute, we discussed using it as a lens — a starting point to ask deeper coaching questions, such as:
"What unseen factors might explain these trends?" or
"How might personal circumstances be influencing these patterns?"

This approach led to personalized, empathetic interventions that no algorithm could have recommended on its own.

Benefits of the Centaur Model in Leadership

The Centaur Model unlocks powerful synergies between human and AI strengths, leading to outcomes that neither could achieve alone.

First, humans bring contextual reasoning, while AI contributes large-scale data analysis. Together, they enable leaders to make more nuanced decisions — choices that are not only data-informed but also deeply attuned to specific situations and human realities.

Second, ethical judgment remains a distinctly human skill, whereas AI excels in bias detection when guided correctly. This partnership leads to fairer outcomes, combining human values with technological vigilance.

Third, while empathy and motivation are uniquely human gifts that foster loyalty and resilience, AI enhances efficiency optimization by identifying workflow improvements. When combined, the result is human-centered productivity — organizations that are both high-performing and emotionally sustainable.

Finally, in conditions of uncertainty, human creativity becomes essential for imagining new paths forward. At the same time, AI's pattern recognition provides unexpected insights that spark innovative thinking. Together, they enable innovation under risk, creating bold yet informed leadership moves.

In essence, Centaur leadership is not about choosing between human or machine intelligence — it is about weaving both into a stronger, wiser whole.

This partnership dramatically enhances leadership effectiveness across three dimensions:

1. Decision Quality
2. Adaptability
3. Trust Building
 

Challenges and Ethical Considerations

Adopting the Centaur Model also demands addressing:

1. Over-reliance on AI outputs without human questioning.
2. Ethical design of AI tools to ensure transparency and bias mitigation.
3. Continuous upskilling so leaders are literate in AI capabilities and limitations.
In coaching sessions, it becomes crucial to support leaders in building critical thinking habits around AI suggestions, rather than passively accepting or rejecting them.

 
Conclusion

The leaders of tomorrow are neither pure strategists nor pure technocrats.
They are Centaur leaders — individuals who think and feel deeply, while skillfully riding the winds of machine intelligence. 🌿⚡

From boardrooms to creative studios, the Centaur Model offers a hopeful vision:
🌟 A future where technology amplifies humanity, rather than eclipses it.

As coaches, it is our mission to nurture this evolution: one reflection, one decision, one courageous partnership at a time.

 
📚 Bibliography
Kasparov, G. (2010). The Chess Master and the Computer. The New York Review of Books.
Brynjolfsson, E., & McAfee, A. (2017). Machine, Platform, Crowd: Harnessing Our Digital Future. W.W. Norton & Company.
Davenport, T. H., & Kirby, J. (2016). Only Humans Need Apply: Winners and Losers in the Age of Smart Machines. HarperBusiness.
Wilson, H. J., Daugherty, P. R., & Morini-Bianzino, N. (2017). The Jobs That Artificial Intelligence Will Create. MIT Sloan Management Review.

Happiness is often portrayed as a destination—a final achievement after accumulating success, wealth, or the perfect relationships. Yet, research and experience tell a different story. Happiness is not a static state but a dynamic process, a work in progress that requires effort, self-awareness, and adaptability.

In this article, we explore the science behind happiness, examine common barriers to achieving it, and provide actionable coaching techniques to help you cultivate joy in your life!

 
The Science of Happiness

Happiness is not just about fleeting moments of pleasure. Positive psychology defines it as a combination of hedonic well-being (pleasure and enjoyment) and eudaimonic well-being (meaning and purpose). It’s influenced by:

Circumstances (10%): External factors like income, relationships, and health.
Genetics (50%): A baseline level of happiness that varies between individuals.
Intentional Activities (40%): Habits, actions, and mindset shifts that significantly influence our happiness.

“Happiness depends upon ourselves.” — Aristotle

This 40% of intentional activities is where coaching plays a pivotal role. By cultivating a growth mindset, developing resilience, and practicing mindfulness, individuals can actively shape their happiness.

 
Common Barriers to Happiness

Before we explore techniques, it’s essential to understand what holds many of us back:

1. Negative Thought Patterns
Repetitive, unhelpful thoughts like catastrophizing or self-criticism can erode happiness and create unnecessary stress.

2. The Hedonic Treadmill
The tendency to quickly adapt to positive changes (like a new job or promotion) means external achievements often bring only temporary joy.

3. Misaligned Goals
Pursuing goals based on societal expectations rather than personal values can leave us feeling unfulfilled.

4. Avoidance of Growth
Fear of failure or discomfort often prevents people from stepping out of their comfort zones, stalling personal development.

 
Where Coaching Comes Into Action?

Happiness, as a work in progress, thrives on intentionality. Here are evidence-based strategies to nurture it:

1. Practice Mindfulness and Present-Moment Awareness
Mindfulness involves paying attention to the present moment without judgment. It reduces stress and enhances overall well-being.

Exercise:

Spend five minutes daily focusing on your breath or the sensations in your body.
Use apps like Headspace or Calm to guide your practice.

Example:
Instead of worrying about tomorrow’s meeting, take a mindful walk, paying attention to the sights, sounds, and sensations around you.

 
2. Reframe Negative Thoughts
Cognitive reframing helps transform unhelpful thoughts into constructive ones, fostering a positive outlook.

Technique:

Identify a negative thought, such as “I always mess up.”
Replace it with a balanced perspective, like “I made a mistake, but I can learn and improve.”

Studies show that cognitive restructuring can reduce symptoms of anxiety and depression while boosting emotional resilience (Beck, 1995).

 
3. Cultivate Gratitude
Gratitude shifts your focus from what you lack to what you have, fostering a sense of abundance and contentment.

Exercise:

Write down three things you’re grateful for each day.
Reflect on why they matter to you.

Example:
Gratitude can be as simple as appreciating a supportive colleague, the warmth of the sun, or a great cup of coffee.

 
4. Align Goals with Values
Happiness flourishes when goals reflect what truly matters to you.

Technique:

List your core values (e.g., creativity, connection, integrity).
Check if your goals align with these values. Adjust them if necessary.

Example:
If connection is a core value, prioritize time with loved ones over working extra hours for financial gain.

 
5. Engage in Acts of Kindness
Helping others boosts happiness by creating a sense of connection and purpose.

Exercise:

Perform one random act of kindness each week, like buying a friend coffee or volunteering your time.

Research shows that altruistic behaviors activate the brain’s reward system, increasing feelings of joy (Layous et al., 2012).

 
6. Embrace the Growth Mindset
A growth mindset—believing in the ability to develop through effort—allows individuals to view challenges as opportunities rather than obstacles.

Technique:

Replace fixed-mindset statements like “I’m not good at this” with “I can improve with practice.”
Reflect on a recent failure and identify one lesson learned.

Studies by Carol Dweck demonstrate that a growth mindset fosters resilience and motivation, both critical for happiness (Dweck, 2006).

 
Happiness is a work ing progress

Happiness is not a finish line—it’s an ongoing process of growth, self-discovery, and intentional action. By understanding the factors that influence happiness and applying strategies like mindfulness, gratitude, and value-driven goal setting, you can create a fulfilling and joyful life.

“The happiest people don’t have the best of everything; they make the best of everything.” — Anonymous

This year, try to reflect on areas of your life where you could bring more intentionality to cultivating happiness. Remember, happiness is a work in progress, and every small step counts!

 
Bibliography
Beck, A. T. (1995). Cognitive Therapy and the Emotional Disorders. Penguin Books.
Dweck, C. S. (2006). Mindset: The New Psychology of Success. Random House.
Layous, K., Nelson, S. K., & Lyubomirsky, S. (2012). “What Is the Optimal Way to Deliver a Positive Activity Intervention? The Case of Writing About One’s Best Possible Selves.” Journal of Happiness Studies, 14(2), 635-654.
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Clarity is the cornerstone of progress. Without it, even the most ambitious goals can feel elusive, and the path to achieving them, obscured. Yet, achieving clarity—particularly when it comes to goal setting—requires more than just a checklist. It calls for self-reflection, intentionality, and sometimes, a touch of philosophical insight.

Philosophers through the ages have wrestled with questions of purpose, direction, and clarity, offering timeless techniques that can guide us in our personal and professional lives. This article explores the importance of clarity in goal setting and introduces philosophical approaches to help you achieve it.

 
Why Clarity Matters

Imagine embarking on a journey without a map or destination. You might enjoy the ride for a while, but eventually, you’ll find yourself frustrated, lost, or demotivated. Goals function as our personal destinations, and clarity provides the map that guides us there.

Clarity helps you:

1. Define Your Purpose: Knowing what you want makes it easier to align your actions with your values.
2. Stay Focused: A clear goal eliminates distractions and keeps you on track.
3. Build Confidence: When you understand your path, you feel empowered to take the next step.

“Man is a goal-seeking animal. His life only has meaning if he is reaching out and striving for his goals.”  - Aristotle

Clarity doesn’t just support goal achievement—it’s a vital component of personal growth and fulfillment!

 
How Philosophy Leads To Clarity

Here are some timeless techniques inspired by philosophical thought to help you bring clarity to your goal-setting process:

1. Socratic Questioning: Clarify Through Curiosity

The Socratic method, developed by Socrates, revolves around asking deep, probing questions to uncover the truth. Applying this to goal setting can help clarify your intentions and priorities.

Ask yourself questions like:

Why is this goal important to me?
What would achieving this goal bring to my life?
What obstacles might I face, and how will I overcome them?

Example:
If your goal is to start a new business, asking “Why do I want this?” might uncover a desire for creative freedom or financial security, helping you define a clearer purpose.

 
2. Nietzsche’s Eternal Return: Test Your Commitment

Friedrich Nietzsche’s concept of the Eternal Return challenges us to consider whether we would choose the same actions if we had to repeat them infinitely. This perspective helps evaluate the authenticity of your goals.

Technique:
Ask: If I had to live this goal repeatedly for eternity, would I still pursue it?

Example:
If your goal is to write a book, imagining the effort and passion required again and again can help confirm whether it truly aligns with your deepest aspirations.

 
3. Kantian Duty: Align Goals with Core Values

Immanuel Kant emphasized acting in accordance with moral duty and values. When setting goals, consider whether they align with your personal ethics and contribute to your sense of purpose.

Technique:
Reflect: Does this goal reflect my core values? How does it contribute to the greater good?

Example:
If you’re aiming for a leadership role, consider whether your motivation stems from a desire to empower others or simply external validation. Aligning with values like service and fairness ensures clarity and authenticity.

 
4. Stoic Dichotomy of Control: Focus on What You Can Influence

The Stoics, including Epictetus and Marcus Aurelius, taught that we should focus on what we can control and let go of what we cannot. This principle can prevent overthinking and help clarify actionable steps.

Technique:
List the aspects of your goal you can influence versus those you cannot. Focus your energy on what’s within your control.

Example:
If your goal is to secure a promotion, you can control your performance and skill development but not the timing of opportunities. Focus on excelling in your current role and growing your abilities.

 
5. Heidegger’s Authenticity: Embrace Your Unique Path

Martin Heidegger’s philosophy emphasizes living authentically by embracing your individuality. When setting goals, resist the urge to follow trends or external expectations and focus on what resonates with your personal vision.

Technique:
Ask yourself: Is this goal truly mine, or am I pursuing it because of societal or external pressures?

Example:
If your goal is to pursue higher education, clarify whether it’s driven by your passion for learning or societal expectations of success.

 
How To Integrate Your New-Acquired Clarity into Goal Setting

Once you’ve used philosophical techniques to refine your goals, follow these practical steps to bring them into focus:

Write It Down: Journaling your thoughts helps solidify your goals and ensures they’re specific and actionable.
Break It Down: Divide large goals into smaller milestones to create a manageable path forward.
Visualize Success: Spend time imagining how achieving your goal will look and feel, reinforcing your motivation.
Seek Feedback: Share your goals with a mentor or trusted friend to gain fresh perspectives.
Review Regularly: Periodically revisit your goals to ensure they still align with your values and aspirations.

“Clarity precedes success.” — Robin Sharma

 
Final Thoughts

Clarity is more than just a tool for achieving goals—it’s a mindset. By adopting philosophical techniques like Socratic questioning, Stoic focus, and Nietzschean reflection, you can create a framework for setting authentic, meaningful goals that align with your values and aspirations.

Remember, clarity isn’t about having all the answers immediately. It’s about taking the time to reflect, question, and refine your path as you grow.

This week, challenge yourself to apply one of these techniques to a goal you’re currently working on. See how it transforms not just your direction, but your confidence in taking the next step!

 
Bibliography
Aristotle. (350 BCE). Nicomachean Ethics.
Nietzsche, F. (1882). The Gay Science.
Kant, I. (1785). Groundwork for the Metaphysics of Morals.
Epictetus. (135 CE). The Discourses.
Heidegger, M. (1927). Being and Time.
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Conflict is inevitable in any workplace, but it doesn’t have to be destructive. Handled well, conflict can lead to innovation, improved relationships, and stronger teams. The Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument (TKI) offers a practical framework for navigating disagreements and finding the best path forward in various situations.

Whether you’re managing a team, negotiating a deal, or resolving a misunderstanding, the Thomas-Kilmann Model provides valuable insights into how conflict styles influence outcomes and how to adapt your approach for the best results.

In this article, we’ll explore the five conflict-handling styles of the Thomas-Kilmann Model, their application in a business context, and how to use them effectively for leadership and team success.

 What Is the Thomas-Kilmann Model?

Developed by Kenneth Thomas and Ralph Kilmann, the TKI is a widely used tool that identifies five distinct conflict-handling styles, each suited to specific situations. The model is based on two dimensions:

Assertiveness: The extent to which you prioritize your own needs.
Cooperativeness: The extent to which you consider others’ needs.

The balance between these dimensions determines your conflict-handling style, and each style has its strengths and appropriate use cases.

“The art of conflict resolution is not about eliminating differences but learning to navigate them with grace.” 

The Five Conflict-Handling Styles

1. Competing (High Assertiveness, Low Cooperativeness)
Competing is a “win-lose” approach where you prioritize your own needs over others’. This style is effective when quick, decisive action is needed or when standing firm is essential.

When to Use: High-stakes decisions, enforcing policies, or addressing unethical behavior.

Example: A manager insists on a deadline for a critical project to meet client expectations, even if it means pushing the team harder.
 
2. Accommodating (Low Assertiveness, High Cooperativeness)
Accommodating involves putting others’ needs ahead of your own to maintain harmony. While it’s useful in certain situations, overusing this style can lead to feeling overlooked.

When to Use: Preserving relationships, resolving minor disputes, or fostering goodwill.
Example: Agreeing to a colleague’s preferred meeting time to avoid unnecessary tension.
 
3. Avoiding (Low Assertiveness, Low Cooperativeness)
Avoiding means stepping back from a conflict altogether. While this can be useful in low-stakes situations or when emotions are high, it’s not a long-term solution.

When to Use: Dealing with trivial issues or when more time is needed to gather information.
Example: Postponing a heated discussion until both parties have calmed down and can approach it more constructively.
 
4. Collaborating (High Assertiveness, High Cooperativeness)
Collaboration is the “win-win” approach, focusing on finding solutions that satisfy all parties. It requires open communication and a willingness to explore creative options.

When to Use: Complex issues, long-term relationships, or situations where both sides’ needs are critical.
Example: A team brainstorms a new strategy that aligns with the company’s goals and addresses everyone’s concerns.
 
5. Compromising (Moderate Assertiveness, Moderate Cooperativeness)
Compromising involves finding a middle ground where each party gives up something to reach an agreement. While it’s not as ideal as collaboration, it’s effective for quick resolutions.

When to Use: Time-sensitive issues or when collaboration isn’t possible.
Example: Splitting marketing resources between two departments with competing priorities.
 

The beauty of the Thomas-Kilmann Model lies in its flexibility. No single conflict style is universally “better”; the key is knowing when to use each style based on the situation. Here’s how to integrate this model into your practices:

1. Assess the Conflict Situation
Take a step back and evaluate the stakes, emotions, and relationships involved. Is this a quick decision, or does it require in-depth discussion?

2. Choose the Right Style
Match the conflict-handling style to the situation. For example, collaborate on long-term projects but compete when enforcing critical policies.

3. Be Flexible
Conflict styles are not static. Practice adapting your approach based on the context and needs of those involved.

“Leadership is not about winning arguments; it’s about resolving conflicts and moving forward together.” 

 

Conflict is a natural part of any team dynamic, but it doesn’t have to derail productivity or morale. By understanding and applying the Thomas-Kilmann Model, leaders can:

1. Foster a culture of open communication and trust.
2. Equip teams with tools to handle disagreements constructively.
3. Strengthen relationships by resolving conflicts with empathy and clarity. This model not only helps resolve conflicts but also builds stronger, more cohesive teams that thrive in the face of challenges.

 
Final Thoughts

The Thomas-Kilmann Model is a powerful tool for navigating the complexities of workplace conflict. By understanding the five conflict-handling styles and when to use them, leaders can transform disagreements into opportunities for collaboration and growth.

This week, take a moment to reflect on your default conflict style. How might adapting your approach strengthen your relationships and improve outcomes in your workplace?

 
Bibliography
Thomas, K. W., & Kilmann, R. H. (1974). Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument. CPP, Inc.
Kilmann, R. H. (2011). Conflict Management for Managers: Resolving Workplace, Client, and Policy Disputes. Wiley.
Stone, D., Patton, B., & Heen, S. (2010). Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most. Penguin Books.
Fisher, R., Ury, W., & Patton, B. (2011). Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In. Penguin Books.