When it comes to creating impactful conversations—whether in coaching, sales, or leadership—two elements play a central role: trust and influence. Think of trust as the foundation of a strong relationship, and influence as the tool that helps you guide meaningful action. The two go hand in hand, and when used together, they can truly transform the way we connect and influence others.

In this article, we will explore the concepts behind trust and influence, break down the insights from our upcoming "Creating Trust, Activating Influence" workshop, and show you how to leverage these principles in your work connections. 

Why Trust and Influence Matter?

At the core of every successful interaction lies trust. Trust is what makes people feel comfortable enough to open up, share their thoughts, and take your advice seriously. Influence, on the other hand, is what enables you to guide them toward meaningful action based on that trust. These two elements form the foundation of relationships in business, sales,coaching  and personal life.

While trust is about creating a safe environment, influence is the ability to inspire and motivate others to act. The key is to use these two forces together—when they work in harmony, you can transform ordinary interactions into impactful, meaningful conversations.

"Trust is the glue of life. It's the most essential ingredient in effective communication. It's the foundational principle that holds all relationships." — Stephen R. Covey

How to Build Trust and Activate Influence?

Our upcoming "Creating Trust, Activating Influence" workshop focuses on combining trust-building techniques with influence strategies that can be applied in any scenario—whether you're leading a team, guiding a client through a transformative decision, or navigating challenging conversations. Here's how the workshop breaks down these skills:

1. Mastering Persuasion Techniques

One of the most important aspects of influence is understanding the psychology behind it. In the workshop, you'll learn Cialdini’s Principles of Influence, a respected model for ethical persuasion. These principles—such as reciprocity, scarcity, and authority—provide you with a framework to influence others in a way that fosters mutual respect and collaboration.

Example:
Imagine you're leading a meeting where you need your team to adopt a new process. By using the principle of social proof, you can show that other departments are successfully using the same process, making your team more likely to follow suit.

2. Building Trust and Credibility

Trust doesn't happen overnight, but there are effective strategies you can use to build it quickly. The workshop introduces the Fogg Behavior Model, which helps you design trust-building interactions that align with the motivations of those you’re engaging with. You'll learn how to communicate in a way that builds credibility and creates a genuine connection.

Example:
If you're presenting a new idea to a client, you might align your proposal with their core values, demonstrating that you understand their priorities. This approach builds credibility and trust, making them more likely to trust your guidance.

"Trust is earned when actions meet words." — Chris Butler

3. Communicating Effectively Across Different Styles

A crucial element of influence is understanding the different ways people communicate. In this session, you'll explore Transactional Analysis (TA), a model that helps you recognize and respond to different ego states—Parent, Adult, and Child. This understanding allows you to adapt your communication style based on the emotional and intellectual needs of your audience, making your message more impactful.

Example:
In a team discussion, you might recognize that a colleague is speaking from their "Parent" ego state, offering rules and guidelines. By responding from your "Adult" state, with logic and calm reasoning, you can balance the conversation and keep it productive.

4. Handling Objections with Confidence

One of the biggest challenges in guiding decisions is handling objections. Instead of seeing objections as roadblocks, the workshop shows you how to view them as opportunities to build trust and further influence. Using the Challenger Sales Model, you'll learn how to reframe objections and use them to strengthen your position without pressuring or manipulating the other person.

Example:
If a client pushes back on your proposal, you can use their objection to ask more questions, showing that you genuinely want to address their concerns. This approach not only builds trust but also opens the door for collaboration and better outcomes.

Who Benefits from This Workshop?

These concepts apply to anyone who wants to improve their communication and relationship-building skills. Whether you're a coach working to guide clients through growth, a sales professional aiming to close deals, or a leader managing a team, building trust and influence will empower you to:

1. Establish deeper, more meaningful connections
2. Communicate effectively across different contexts
3. Guide others to take action confidently and ethically
4. Strengthen long-term relationships

“Trust is like the air we breathe—when it’s present, nobody notices; when it’s absent, everybody notices.” — Warren Buffett

So, if you’re ready to take the next step in mastering these skills, don’t miss the opportunity to join us for this transformative workshop.

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Cialdini, R. B. (2006). Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion. Harper Business.
Covey, S. R. (2004). The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. Free Press.
Berne, E. (1964). Games People Play: The Psychology of Human Relationships. Grove Press.
Dixon, M., & Adamson, B. (2011). The Challenger Sale: Taking Control of the Customer Conversation. Penguin.